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WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?
I’ve listened to loads of clips of ‘The Atheist Experience’ over the years and they’re a great way to explore an understanding of opinions on the existence or not of any and all mystical powers. There are more than a few examples where the people calling in have marched into the ring to prove the existence of the almighty and have been crunched because they didn’t have anything like a coherent idea at their fingertips but it’s not those things that got me thinking.
One of the first questions that gets asked of people when they call in saying they can prove the existence of the magical in any and all possible forms is that they need to define what it is that they’re going to prove before they start, and you’ll be amazed at how often that’s where things unravel.
Making sure that there’s a shared understanding of meanings is a tiny part of how we collectively communicate but without that shared understanding of what words or events or things mean, comprehension falls apart.
There are examples of tiny actions that don’t translate between different parts of the world. Put your thumb up in the UK for example and you signal that all is well, but do it in Iran and you give a message more akin to the middle finger gesture. The two finger V sign is either ‘Peace’ or ‘**** off’ depending on which way round you present it so the most simple elements of how we show or explain to others can often not be as clear cut as people would like.
Making sure that there is a clarity surrounding definitions of things ensures that we can all understand what each of us is trying to say but it goes beyond just describing things.
How do you define yourself?
How do each of us define ourselves on a day to day basis? Do you use your job? Your age? Your sports team? Your nationality? All of these things can be ways that we see ourselves and other people but should we solely use singular factors as defining the whole?
Are all old people the same? Do all fans of a certain sports team think the same way? Do all tall people behave the same? If you vote for one person, does that follow that you share every trait of everyone else who voted the same way?
Making sure that we have the correct definitions for things is vital but looking at a singular thread and using that as the sole defining characteristic can be a dangerous route to take. It then becomes far too easy to generalise the group of a specific point in whatever way you could imagine.
BMW drivers don’t know how to use their indicators?
All foreigners are dangerous?
Sound familiar?
If we look at ourselves through a single lens, wouldn’t we risk distorting how we view everything as we relate everything back to our job? Does that mean that our families become those people we see when not in work or the ones who moan if you have to work late?
If all we are is a single strand then we become two dimensional. It’s all of the other things that we do, think, or like that goes into making up who we all are so being too focused on defining ourselves by a singular point or factor can bring the risk of shattering you if things were to change.
Lose your job and that can destroy you if that was all you defined yourself as.
Embrace the many different things that make up you.
Stay safe all.